Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Icons and the Theology of Our Bodies





[Many of you are aware that, as a student at the Theology of the Body Institute, I listen to the the institute's founder and his wife as they field questions on human sexuality, anthropology and theology every week in their podcast. It has been a true source of healing in my life. This episode sheds light on why we grow Visio Divina cards and give them away freely on the farm. This is a wonderful explanation of Eastern Orthodox and Roman Catholic piety with a true tenderness toward Protestant sensibilities.]


Wendy: Our next question is from an anonymous listener. "Hi Christopher and Wendy, your podcast has been so helpful in my discerning of Catholicism. So, thank you so much."

Christopher: You are welcome so much.

Wendy: "I come from a Protestant background, and now that I am more open to icons and statues than I was before, I was wondering if you could please explain why Catholics venerate them bodily. I get that the honor is for the one the image represents and not the image itself, but that still troubles me because I wrestle with scriptures like Revelation 19:10, where an angel does not want to be bowed down to, even in his immediate presence. I love looking at images, but still struggle with the idea of kissing or bowing to them. I was wondering if you could explain how Theology of the Body illuminates this."


Christ Pantocrator
(Ruler of the Universe)


Christopher: Sure, sure, sure. Thank you, first of all, for the question and for your honest seeking. Keep going, keep going. You're on an amazing journey and it ends in glory, so keep going. 

I'm reminded of a story that I just heard from a friend of ours yesterday, and I'm gonna use it to answer this question.

A friend of ours, our age, mid-50s, loved Sean Cassidy in the 70s. If you don't know who Sean Cassidy is, I'm not gonna get into that, but he was like a teen idol in the 70s and a musician. You can look him up.

But if you're our age, everybody in the 70s, when we were kids, knew Sean Cassidy. And he is touring now. And all these people in their 50s and 60s are going out to see him.

And our friend went out to see him. And this little 12-year-old came out of her when she was describing, with such glee, how delighted she was to go to see this Sean Cassidy concert. And she told the story of when she was a little girl, she had the Sean Cassidy picture on her, a poster on her wall.

And she would kiss it every night before she went to bed. All right. Why did she do that? Why would she kiss a poster?

It's not a real person. It's what's going on. But it's a genuine human gesture of wanting to express, think of that word express or expression.

Something inside us at an interior spiritual level wants to get pressed out, express. I once heard it said, and it's a great little insight into the, just the way our humanity works. Impression without expression leads to depression.

When we have something inside that wants to come out, and we don't let it come out, now, you know, that could be taken in the wrong way. I'm speaking of genuine human things that we feel inside. I'm not saying I have the sexual desire, if I don't express it, I'm going to be depressed.

I'm talking about a genuine human reality, right? So there's something beautiful in this little girl's heart, our friend, who's now in her 50s, that she wanted to kiss the Sean Cassidy poster, right? Something had been impressed on her heart. She wanted to express it. And she even told the story of how her babysitter caught her doing it, and that she said she looked stupid and she shouldn't do that. 


And I said, you know, have you ever prayed about that? Have you ever forgiven that babysitter for doing that? And she immediately teared up, because that's how deep this stuff goes. Like, this stuff is really in there. 

It goes deep in our hearts, and we need to pay attention to those inner workings. It is entirely human to want to show, like, I have a deep love, deep, deep love for Mary, the mother of God, who's also my mother in the Order of Grace. She's my mama, she's my mama.


Henry Ossawa Turner's painting "Annunciation"


Now, she's also ascended bodily into heaven. So I don't get to hang out with her in the same way I get to hang out with my earthly mom, or my wife, or my sister. But man, wouldn't that be, I want to express, when I'm with you, my love, I get to express my love for you.

I get to press it out. I get to have a bodily expression of it by hugging you, holding you, kissing you, reaching out to touch your hand, and in the full beauty of our marital union. That's how we're made.

It has to do with the integrity of body and soul, that spiritual realities get expressed physically. And when I'm in the presence of, say, an icon of the Blessed Mother, that becomes an opportunity for me to express my love for that woman. And I know it's a piece of wood with paint on it, but it's a representation of that person.

And it's entirely in keeping with our humanity, with the way God made us, that we would express some genuine affection for our mother in the order of grace by kissing, by reverently, you know, like when I proposed to you, Wendy, I got down on one knee. I wasn't worshiping you as if you were God, but I was showing proper reverence for the sacredness of what was occurring. When somebody properly bows to an icon or a statue properly, you know, it could be disordered too, but it can be properly expressed, they're not worshiping the paint and the wood. They're showing a certain veneration for the person represented there. And if that representation is Christ, we worship Christ.

We never worship Mary. We never worship a saint, but we do worship Christ because he's God, right? So that bowing to the icon of Christ can be a show of worship to Christ himself.

Bowing to an icon of Mary or a saint can be a show of proper veneration or honor given to the person. You know, in cultures of the East, when people greet one another, they'll bow to each other. There's something beautiful about that showing reverence to the person.

I often do that. When I'm interacting with somebody and they're sharing certain aspects of their suffering or sacred aspects of their life, I'll bow out of reverence for the image of God in this person. Don't be afraid to express what is impressed on your heart.

So in answer to your question about what light does Theology of the Body have to shine on this, one of the brightest lights of the Theology of the Body is the utter insistence on the unity and integrity of body and soul, on the unity and integrity of our interior and exterior selves. And that veneration, honoring and worship itself demands bodily expression. Impression in this sense without expression leads to depression.

Wendy: Something I was reminded of in looking at this question is I once listened to a talk given by a Catholic apologist named Steve Ray, who also was from a Protestant background and became Catholic. And he was talking to Catholics to try to give us an understanding of how shocking some things about Catholicism are to Protestants. And he was talking about the fact of coming into a Catholic church and seeing all these paintings and statues and things that just feel so foreign.

And just to have some compassion for, like, the difficulty of entering into that world when that's not your world, when that's not how you've been raised, or just experienced faith before. And I just was grateful for his way, and I'm not doing it justice, but he really did give me, like, just a heart for, like, this is challenging. This is not easy to kind of make this journey here and to feel comfortable and at ease in something that seems so different.

So, you know, I am grateful to him for just shining that light for me on that experience. And I feel like there's just an honest, you know, I come from a Protestant background here, and I'm growing, but this is a thing that I'm still questioning. And I think all that you said, Christopher, was just shining like a light on just a Catholic understanding of our expressions of faith.

That is, yeah, we maybe as Protestants, there's been for Protestants, there's like a judgment toward it, a, you know, a meaning assigned to it. That that is, you know, like something that you need to avoid, that that's off or it's wrong. And so like, it's just understandable that there's this to wrestle with interiorly.

I think, you know, there, as you talked about the things that are in our hearts that get expressed, like, we can all find those things in our hearts. It's like, you know, what if you're at your, you know, you're somewhere and you encounter a photo of someone who has died, someone that you love, that's died, and you see that photo, and like, you actually want to show some tenderness to the photo because you missed the person, but you know that makes no sense, but you feel it. Like, oh, you know, you're careful with it and you gaze at it with love or, yeah, you hold it to your cheek.

I don't know, but there are things that like just happen in us because of our love. And yet there's also a way that that engaging our bodies can teach our hearts. So it can go the other way.

Like, it's not just that what's in our heart naturally comes out that way, but also the things we do physically are instructive to our hearts. So like, I remember recently seeing a little video of our grandson kissing Jesus' body on the crucifix. And he's learning something through that physical action that he's seen others do.


The Holy Trinity: Jesus felt abandoned... he wasn't.


He's learning to treasure the gift of Jesus on the cross. Like, he's learning that as a tiny little person. And somewhere inside, I think, our hearts, you know, there's still those like little places in us that need those outward things to teach us.

And so when we're together with others, maybe it's, you know, Good Friday, and we have the opportunity to, if we, you know, attend a Good Friday service to kiss a crucifix. Like, how instructive for our hearts, at whatever stage of our faith journey that is, to physically embrace this representation of the Lord. It's like traveling through time to be present at His crucifixion and to, like, console Him with our love and our receiving of His gift.

That's beautiful. Sometimes we see a picture, a representation of a saint that we have been blessed by on our journey. Like, the point of saints is that they bless other people on their journey to the Lord.

Like, if you know them when they're alive or if you know of them after they're not alive, like, that's what they're doing. They're journeying to the Lord and they're helping us on our journey. Like, we could encounter that, and that gratitude we have could cause us to just pause, to pause and be recollected.

And that physical posture is showing our, like, tuning out of other things and being fully present to that profound gift of this person to us. So, yeah, I hope some of that is just speaking to your heart with your question about these things that, yeah, do seem weird and unfamiliar.

Christopher: Yeah, I think to sum up some of the differences here, I think you could see the difference in this light. At the root of Catholic theology and anthropology is a remarkable lack of suspicion towards our humanity, body and soul. And at the root of some, I don't want to make blank a statement here, but at the root of some Protestant approaches in theology is a really tragic suspicion towards our humanity, body and soul, and a blaming of the body.

Matter matters. The incarnation shows this so plainly. And those two starting points will take you out into a very different practice in the way you live out your faith.

So, it's not that the church does not take sin seriously. It does, but it doesn't. Sin is not powerful enough to undo or uproot the original goodness of our bodies and our souls.

That original goodness is retained. We are tragically fallen, but we are not utterly depraved because of sin. And that's a real difference in Catholic and Protestant approaches.

So anyway, I hope that's helpful to you.




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Thursday, December 4, 2025

Twelve Steps and the Jesuits

As a student in the Divine Mercy University’s Spiritual Direction Certification program the entire last semester has made it abundantly clear that I need to become very familiar with the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola. St. Ignatius founded the Jesuit order over 450 years ago, also known as 'The Society of Jesus' (FYI, Pope Francis was a member). 

Not being a priest or in a religious order or having much Catholic education, my response to this requirement of being well versed in the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius has largely been:

The what of the who?!

Well, I’m not the only recovering addict to say that about the Spiritual Exercises. I found out that Bill W. (co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous) said pretty much the same thing to Fr. Ed Dowling in about 1942 when AA was just getting off the ground.

Ok, back up... how do I know this?

Part of my course requirements have been to attend a 5 day Ignatian retreat. I was able to fulfill that requirement this past summer. I showed up at the Bellarmine Retreat Center for my required five day retreat very much looking forward to it.

Three hours into it at the end of dinner time, they say what everyone but me knows.. "This is a silent retreat from here on. Enjoy!" (Read more about my Bellarmine Retreat adventure here.)

What?!

That must have been in the fine print somewhere... hmmm... this is going to be interesting.

Silent, that is, except for going to Mass and meeting with my spiritual director. Her job was to lead me through some of the Spiritual Exercises.

Well alrighty then!

But I needn’t have been worried, God knows what he is doing.

During my first meeting with my spiritual director I found out that she is a recovering alcoholic, ten years sober. I’m not sure we ever got through many of the Ignatian Exercises (as much as I needed them to be explained to me), because we were both geeking out about being in recovery and how we work with our sponsees and so on. We spent a lot of time comparing notes on those fronts.





As we were talking she asked me if I’d seen the “Fr. Ed” book in the Bellarmine book store?

I said no and asked her what it was about.

Turns out Fr. Ed Dowling was a great champion of the early AA organization. He also befriended Bill W. and became one his most trusted spiritual advisors.

My spiritual director then explained that the book was written by an excellent research journalist named Dawn Eden Goldstein, a Jewish convert to Catholicism. She said that Dawn takes great pains to meticulously explain how Father Ed helped Bill W. see the connections between Ignatian spirituality and the 12 steps.

So I of course bought the book along with several other of Goldstein’s books (all very good by the way) and I’ve been slowly reading it during my weekly holy hours.

I have to say, this is really helping me get my head around the spiritual exercises now that I understand that this spirituality actually permeates much of AA and all 12 step spirituality. It is starting to make sense to me because of my familiarity with the 12 steps.





I guess if I’d only gone to the Calix Society Store when I first joined a few years back I might have seen the excellent book by Father Jim Harbaugh that explains how the 12 steps are related to the Spiritual exercises. Maybe I’ll read that one next.

But back to Goldstein’s book. She is indeed an excellent researcher and an amazing story teller as well. She knows how to make a biography interesting.

Anyway, if you are at all interested in the roots of Alcoholics Anonymous and twelve step spirituality, do yourself a favor and get a copy of “Father Ed: The Story of Bill W’s Spiritual Sponsor” and sip on it. If you’re like me you’ll learn a whole lot about the spiritual formation that Jesuits go through at the very least (that is the first part of the book). Then I guarantee you’ll learn things you never knew about the first decades of AA... Dawn Eden is one of the best research journalists I’ve ever read.

Maybe I'll actually be able to navigate through the rest of my course work now and obtain my certificate because of making this connection. Who knew?



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Friday, November 28, 2025

A Bible for the Young and Young at Heart

I wish I'd grown up with this kid's Bible. It is easily the finest one I've seen in print and I've seen quite a few.

Definitely not just for young Catholics!

The only problem is the subtitle which is "A Story Bible for Young Catholics".

Ok, I get the 'marketing to Catholics' thing, but this publication is certainly NOT just for Young Catholics. What a terribly limiting thing to say!

No.

Emily's story telling prowess shines here!

This work of art is for everyone (the young and the young at heart) who wants to know more about the Christian faith in its entire sweep. It wonderfully connects the dots between key elements over the entire arc of salvation history.


Diana Renzina's art work is stunningly beautiful!


It is for kids of all ages. My inner 10 year old has delighted in every page.

And my inner 4 year old LOVED listening to Jonathan Roumie read it to me. I binged the entire 76 short (average 5 minute) chapters in a matter of a few days!


Read by the actor
who plays Jesus
in 'The Chosen'

So Christian or not, Protestant or Catholic or Orthodox or whatever, this one is for you if you want to catch a vision of what Christians have treasured over the past twenty centuries.

Emily Stimpson Chapman's excellent story telling abilities alone make this a winner. Combined with Diana Renzina's stunning artwork it knocks it out of the park! Diana's more accurate depiction of the variety of Middle Eastern skin tones alone is so refreshing and only the tiniest part of her true talent as an illustrator.

I am deeply impressed and binging the audio now for the second time because my inner 4 year old keeps clamoring for it again.




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Thursday, November 27, 2025

The Vietnamese Mass: A Piercing Joyous Light

As I started going to Mass more in the greater Grand Rapids area I couldn't help noticing the presence of Vietnamese Nuns quite often. I learned that there was a convent for them on the southwest side of town. 

Digging a little deeper I found out a little more history on how people from Vietnam began arriving here in greater numbers with the fall of Saigon in 1975. Many of them were and still are Catholic.

In 2024 we moved towards the southwest side where the closest Parish was Our Lady of La Vang.

Having gone there a few times over the last year, the beauty and kindness of the people there have touched my heart deeply. It shines out profoundly in their worship and devotion during the mass because to me at least, their way of chanting the entire liturgy is piercingly exquisite.

The lovely aesthetic of the chanted Vietnamese language lends a hand in this regard. If I had to compare it to a musical instrument it would be the chimes, the vertical hammered tubular percussion instrument you find in most bands and orchestras.

Hear it for yourself in this example:





At Our Lady of La Vang everything is in Vietnamese most of the time. With my love of languages this suits me just fine. Add to that, they often have the words of songs and the liturgy projected so I can follow along and sound out the words. Sometimes they have the English alongside the Vietnamese, so I can figure out pretty quickly the often repeated words like God (Thân) or Lord (Chua) or Jesus Christ (Giêsu Kitô).

The point is this, I find it easy to sing and worship with my Vietnamese brothers and sisters and I find their deep reverence extremely attractive. I hope to make this my Sunday Church home now since we live so close and I like to support my neighborhood Parish when I can.

This past Monday was the memorial of St. Andrew Dũng-Lạc and I was so very fortunate to have attended mass at the Cathedral downtown with Fr. Kenneth Boyack presiding that morning. His homily was so beautiful I asked if I could have it and share it with others. He handed it to me right away and then sent it to me later in electronic form.

It is very inspiring and informative. I hope it blesses you today!


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Homily for the Memorial of St. Andrew Dung-Lac, Priest, and Companions, Martyrs
Father Kenneth Boyack, CSP
Cathedral of Saint Andrew, Grand Rapids, MI

Today the Church invites us to remember a remarkable chapter in the history of the Catholic faith—the witness of St. Andrew DÅ©ng-Lạc and the Vietnamese Martyrs. Their story stretches across three centuries and includes more than 100,000 believers—bishops and priests, religious and laypeople, parents and children—most of whose names are known only to God. Yet their courage continues to speak to the whole Church.

When Christianity first entered Vietnam in the late 1500s, it was seen as a foreign threat. Waves of persecution followed, marked by some of the most brutal tortures in recorded history. Believers were burned, dismembered, or suffocated; churches were destroyed; and Christians were ordered to renounce their faith by trampling on a crucifix. And yet, against all human logic, the Gospel did not disappear. It took deeper root. The blood of these martyrs became the seed of a thriving Church.

Among them stands Andrew Dũng-Lạc, a humble parish priest born near Hanoi. As a young man, he encountered a catechist, was baptized, and soon became a catechist himself. His zeal and holiness led to his ordination in 1823. In 1832, when Christianity was outlawed under Emperor Minh-Mang, Andrew was arrested repeatedly. He could have saved his life by denying Christ, but he chose instead to remain faithful. He was beheaded on December 21, 1839.

How do we make sense of such courage? One of his fellow martyrs, St. Paul Le-Bao-Tinh, wrote from prison: “I am full of joy and gladness, because I am not alone—Christ is with me. Our Master bears the whole weight of the cross, leaving me only the tiniest bit.” Their strength was not human stubbornness; it was confidence in the presence of Christ.

This memorial challenges us not necessarily to die for Christ, but to live for Him. Most of our trials are quieter: choosing forgiveness over resentment, fidelity over convenience, truth over comfort, faith over fear. The martyrs remind us that holiness is built on daily decisions to trust Jesus, even when it costs us something.

Their witness also proclaims that the Church is truly universal. The Gospel is not Western or Eastern—it belongs to every people and culture. Today, the Church in Vietnam is vibrant and growing, a living testament that suffering never has the last word. God does.

So we pray in this Mass: Lord, give us the courage of these martyrs. Help us to stand firm in faith, to love without fear, and to follow you with joyful hearts. May their witness inspire us to proclaim Christ—not only with our words, but with our lives. Amen.

Trusting in God who strengthened the martyrs of Vietnam, let us confidently bring our prayers before the Lord.

  • For the Church throughout the world, that, inspired by the courage of St. Andrew DÅ©ng-Lac and his companions, Christians may remain steadfast in faith and joyful in witness, even in times of trial. R: Lord hear our prayer.
  • For all who suffer persecution for their faith today, that God will protect them, give them hope, and bring peace to nations where religious freedom is threatened. R: Lord hear our prayer.
  • For the people and Church of Vietnam, that the seed planted by the martyrs may continue to bear fruit in holiness, vocations and vibrant missionary discipleship. R: Lord hear our prayer.
  • For priests, catechists, missionaries, and all who proclaim the Gospel, that, like St. Andrew DÅ©ng-Lac, they may serve with humility, courage and unwavering trust in Christ. R: Lord hear our prayer.
  • For our Cathedral community, that we may learn to live our faith boldly -- choosing love over fear, forgiveness over resentment and truth over convenience -- so that our lives become a witness to Christ. R: Lord hear our prayer.
  • For those who carry hidden crosses -- illness, loneliness, grief, or discouragement, that they may know the comforting presence of Christ, who walks with His people in every trial. R: Lord hear our prayer.
  • For peace among nations and respect among cultures, that the example of the universal Church may help all peoples see one another as brothers and sisters created in God's image. R: Lord hear our prayer.
  • For the prayers we hold in the silence of our hearts. R: Lord hear our prayer.
God of strength and mercy, you sustained the martyrs of Vietnam in their hour of trial. Hear our prayers, grant us steadfast hearts and make us faithful witnesses to your love. Through Christ our Lord. 

Amen.




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Wednesday, November 26, 2025

Joseph Stalin Part 2

The Joseph Stalin song (aka "Just Like Me" by Jeffrey Martin) acknowledged the dignity we owe to every person with penetrating humor. It is the most recent addition to my campfire songs.

"Orders" by Bruce Cockburn takes it a step father with somber determination. It entered my campfire lexicon after I heard it a couple years ago. Give it a listen:





The just, the merciful, the cruel
The stumbling well-intentioned fool
The deft, the oaf, the witless pawn
The golden one life smiles upon
The squalling infant in mid-squall
The neighbors fighting down the hall
The list is long - as I recall
Our orders said to love them all

The cynic and the crooked priest
The woman wise, the sullen beast
The enemy outside the gate
The friend who leaves it all to fate
The drunk who tags the bathroom stall
The proud boy headed to his fall,
The list is long - as I recall
Our orders said to love them all

The pastor preaching shades of hate
The self-inflating head of state
The black and blue, the starved for bread
The dread, the red, the better dead
The sweet, the vile, the small, the tall
The one who rises to the call
The list is long - as I recall
Our orders said to love them all

The one who lets his demons win
The one we think we’re better than
A challenge great - as I recall
Our orders said to love them all


What Jeffrey Martin did with comic wit, Cockburn amps up with grim resolve. Let's admit it, sometimes we need a good dose of earnest commitment and power from above to love others as we'd be loved... which are our orders.


Cockburn's 38th album is perhaps his sweetest.
Pure light and joy burst from this release.

But don't let the soberness of this song scare you away from the his latest album where it resides. "O Sun O Moon" contains songs of pure joy and light as well. That sacramental joy permeates Cockburn's impressive collection of 38 releases since the early 70's. And that is why over a dozen of his songs are in my campfire lexicon.




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Sunday, November 23, 2025

Joseph Stalin came from somebody's vagina

Best first line of a song, EVER!

We were at the Nowhere Else Festival with some friends when we first heard Jeffrey Martin belt these lyrics out from the stage. Here, have a listen yourself:




Joseph Stalin came from somebody's vagina
Just like Babe Ruth and Mao Zedong and Mark Twain
and Paul Simon played catch, with his Daddy on the weekend
Just like you, Just like you, Just like me

And Adolph Hitler played with dolls in his bedroom
Quiet so his mother wouldn't hear
And he grew up to be a monster, but for a while he was a child
Let's be clear, Let's be clear, Let's be clear

And Jesus represented love in the flesh
But they said he was a man in every way
And so the evidence would suggest, that he had a thing for breasts
Just like you, Just like you, Just like me

My coquette neighbor is a banker in the city
He falls off the wagon and gets drunk on Listerine
He is shiny on the outside and broken on the inside
Just like you, Just like you, Just like me

Yeah, he is shiny on the outside and broken on the inside
Just like you, Just like you, Just like me


The song got some laughs for sure. More importantly, I feel like it stimulated some thoughts on the dignity owed to each and every human. Check this out from Google AI:


Yes, you can be said to owe someone dignity, because dignity is an inherent worth that every person possesses and that you are morally obligated to respect, even if they don't "earn" it. While some argue that respect should be earned, the idea of inherent dignity means that you are owed a baseline of decency simply by virtue of being human. This includes treating them with respect, kindness, and consideration, regardless of their actions or circumstances.

Not bad. Pretty much aligns with what I'm learning of the dignity of the human person in my Theology of the Body courses

I've seen this type of respect on full display by a couple of women that one would think would have little of it for one another. One had an abortion under terrible circumstances. The other survived an abortion attempt in similar circumstances.


Rape and Abortion Survivors Unite!
The story of the most unlikely friendship


I've found nothing that illustrates the the whole thrust of Jeffrey Martin's song better than this. These two simply refuse to be offended by one another. They refuse to treat each other with disrespect. How refreshing.

This stands in glaring contrast to Charlie Kirk being murdered for what he was saying and doing. All of the offense taken into the public consciousness from Charlie evidently tanked up and burst out sideways through a deranged individual.

That is sad.

Perhaps he was a monster in some ways, I don't know, I never really followed his particular brand of activism or watched any of his college campus debates. But maybe we could add another verse to Jeffrey's song for Charlie:


Charlie Kirk spoke out for things that he believed in
He made famously infuriating pleas
But he loved his wife and kids, even with the things he did
Just like you, Just like you, Just like me.


As I listen to some of my friends speak about Charlie, I become sad about the way it comes across almost as a celebration of somebody finally getting what they deserved. "That $#%@ had it coming!!" is what I hear more often than not.

And this darkness is why Miriam and Buzz' friendship shines so brightly. Maybe we could learn something from them. They've become almost unoffendable toward each other. In fact they talk about this extensively in their tenth published phone chat. They speak of the Bible study they went through in a book by Brant Hansen.


The Bible Study that Buzz and Miriam
Have both read and pondered as they've sought
Reconciliation and recovery together

As I've shared these concepts with friends, it has been strange to observe how becoming unoffendable is deeply offensive to so many of us. (Yes I have taken offense at the suggestion as well.)

I listened to this book, read by the author at the suggestion of Miriam and Buzz... turns out that the author is also an established radio personality and listening to him is extremely engaging. He is both witty and humorous.

But back to Jeffrey Martin and his song. I think I'm a fan of this guy now. I plan to follow him some more. This song at least is now in my campfire song rotation. That might not seem like a big deal until you consider the others in that list like T-bone Burnett, Over the Rhine, Johnny Cash, Bob Dylan, Alison Kraus and Bruce Cockburn.

Keep writing songs Mr. Martin.




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Monday, September 29, 2025

Full Flavors Dismiss Caricatures

I was having dinner with my old friend Bob M and he recommended a book to me. I downloaded it for listening on the spot. It turns out to be the best crash course on the world’s largest faith traditions I’ve ever encountered.

In my experience, I’ve noticed the tendency of myself and others to construct a caricature of faith traditions in which we are not involved. It seems to be a universal tendency. The problem with this is that when I reduce an entire faith tradition to a caricature I am robbed of the full flavor of that group’s belief system.





This is precisely what John Dickson expertly avoids in his book “A Doubters Guide to World Religions: A Fair and Friendly Introduction to the History, Beliefs and Practices of the Big Five”.

The title mentions the word friendly and he means it. In the audible version the Australian author’s disarming wit and humor come to life as he reads it himself. I found it deeply engaging as he insisted upon explaining the various faith walks using their own words and enthusiasm as much as possible. It was as if a devoted follower were telling me all the wonderful things about their way of life.

I don’t know about you, but much of my exposure to world religions was taught from the perspective of ‘let’s see what is wrong with them’ rather than being curious. Professor Dickson’s approach is so much more engaging and kind.

In fact, the only dose of ‘let’s see what’s wrong with them’ is in a chapter dedicated to the author’s own faith walk: Chapter 26 - What’s Wrong With Jesus. In this chapter he allows each of the other four traditions to explain what they see as disagreeable or even abhorrent to them regarding the Christian way of belief and life.

Genius.

I learned so much from this genuinely disarming approach. It is the epitome of ‘seeking to understand rather than be understood’. I highly recommend this book to anyone fatigued by the relentless polemical approaches often adopted in this genre.

I have added a few hard copies of this book to share with the curious in the Photon Farms give away library.

It is that good.




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